Females: Virginity and First Sex Age

WOMEN: When did you lose your virginity?
What age? Circumstances?
Or are you still a virgin?
What do you think it the best age or circumstances to have sex?

Male Participants - Please Use the Male Survey

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Lea

When sucking destroyes your virginity, I lost mine in my early teens. I frivolously bet, that I would be able to suck three boys in a row. We were on a holiday camp then and often witnessed the older ones having sex by their moaning and screaming in the tents. We younger ones met and spoke about sex. The boys in our group showed, how to get a boner, how to shake it and what the babymakers are looking like. Well, I had to fulfill my dirty words one evening somewhere in the woods. Five boys around, three to have their release in my mouth. It was not so bad, as I had thougt first. It was quite a quick affair. Two minutes each and some disgusting taste. After the second ejaculation my rubbing between my legs gave me an orgasm. The third boy was the oldest and had a much fatter eruption than the others. But I managed it resolutely. I was glad, that we all left the next day. I blushed permanently, when I noticed one of the boys. It had been an extremly confusing adventure.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Babe

Well as far as intercourse goes, I'm still a virgin, but I have have sexual encounters with guys. I have masturbated with a boy friend, in the shower I jacked him off and he rubbed my clit until I came. Lying in the bed together, I jacked him to orgasm and he fingered me.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER:
TITLE: PRettychick

I lost mine to my brother. I guess it wasnt as bad as it sounds though. He had just lost his girlfreind, I mean, she died. I was 15 and heard him crying. I snuggled up beside him in his bed and felt him go hard against my leg. I knew exactly what I was doing and it wasnt that he forced me in any way. I just rolled on top of him and slid him inside me. It hurt a bit and I bled a little, but it just felt right. It was the only time we ever did anything like that.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: jordana

um well it was actually when I was 5 or 6 but the other boy was only 11 or 12 and first he went down on me by actually saying he wanted to lick my pee spot but I knew what he meant from my girl neighbor touching me ther already and anyway I was all lubed up and he got on top of me and fingered me a lot without anything really getting me going until I felt his hard penis actually get inside me and start hurting because of his size but it kept pulling out which was good in delaying his cumming and in giving me time to put my hand down there and pat my wet little vagina a bit. to this day I still fantasize about that boy because he was my first sex lesson and he served me well but if I had a kid of my own i'd want them to wait until they were 15 or 16 for there first times

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: lucy

I was 15 when I lost my virginity. I had skipped school one day with a guy who had come home after joining the air force. He was stationed in California. I knew him from when he was in school. He was so hot. We went to the national forest and had sex in the back of his car. I hurt a little at first then when he really got going it felt kinda good.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: teezmepleez

My first time was at the age of 15, it was a peer pressure thing I guess. I didn't really want to but all my friends were loosing theirs so I said what the hell. It was with an older boy, he was a senior and I a freshman. God he was such a dork! We were introduced by a mutual friend and we started hanging out. The first time was a Tuesday afternoon afterschool. His mom was still at work so we didn't have to much time. I remember being on top and having his hard cock ram up in me an inch or so at first. I was not the slightes bit wet so it was really quite painful. He eventually got it all the way in and thrust it in and out of me for a few minutes and then he moaned once and came. Then we got up and got dressed, he took me home 15 minutes later so his mom wouldn't know we were home alone together. We got serious after that and dated for little over a year. Looking back, he is definately the worst lover I've ever had. He couldn't have had to much experience being the dork that he was.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: tonic

I lost 'it at 7 to my cousin I'm not even sure no that I knew what was happening there was no pain just an uncomfortable feeling we continued for about a year to me it was something I had to do before we could get on and play.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Other
TITLE: Old but still hot

All of these ladies have lost their virginity much too young, however many of them were under willing circumstances. Those men who indulged when the girl was in pre-puberty or older without adequate sexual foreplay in order to properly lubricate the female partner would be better off if they had their balls removed. As for me, I lost my virginity at age 27 on my wedding night. My wife and I came together 5 times on that first night as we explored and caressed each other's nakedness for the first time.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: shana

I lost mine to my brother, he was 12 and I was 14, I came home and caught him playing with himself. He said he needed to get off every day, I ask if I could feel him feel watch him and watch him ejaculate and touch it, Well one thing lead to another and I asked him to put it in me, he pulled out before he ejaculated so I could see him shoot. We did it for years. I never regreted it and I KNOW he has enjoyed it. I think that is why we have always got along well. We had a quick one last month at the family reunion for kicks, he said I am still better then his wife. WE WILL TRY FOR ONCE EVERY YEAR, JUST BECAUSE IT'S WRONG, NASTY, AND FEELS SO GOOD. he wants to try anal next reunion, I have never even let my husband do that but my brother,s penis is long and thinner so maybe I will try it, may not.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Baby

I was 15 and I had been dating my boyfriend for 6 months and we was watching a movie in his room and his parents went riding so we were alone. He started kissing me and feeling on me. It basically got to were he was so good at pleasing me that I told him I wanted him to make love to me. We are still together today and are planning on getting married next summer.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Therin

I lost my virginity when I was 18. We had sex in his truck. I didn't care about him, but I was tired of being a virgin. I think the most fulfilling way to lose your virginity is to do it within a loving and trusting relationship at an age when you are emotionally mature enough to handle having sex.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: sexy_me

i lost my virginity when I was 15 to a guy I haad just met about 2 days beofre that. We were on a school trip in vermont and it was all so romantic. I barely liked him but I was sick of being a virgin and sex has never been a big deal to me. I kinda regret not letting my current boyfriend be the one who took my virginity since I took his but I dont regret doing it at all. I saw what I wanted and went for it and got it. I didnt bleed tho so it was good. it hurt really bad tho.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: College Girl

I was 18, he was 19. We had been friends for about 3 years and had been fooling around off and on for about 2. He and I were very close and I loved him dearly- but not necessarily in a romantic way. One night we'd been talking for hours and next thing I knew, we were fooling around again. He asked me if I wanted to go a little farther this time. At first I was reluctant- after all, I'd always thought I was going to wait until I knew I was going to marry a guy before even thinking about sex. Then, I realized how right it felt for it to be him. He had been the first guy I'd ever done ANYTHING with. He was very gentle with me and made sure I was comfortable. We only had sex one more time after that- and then I told him I didnt want to anymore. I havent had sex again and don't plan to until I am married. I would probably not have done it if I were in the position again, but I wouldn't necessarily say I regret it.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER:
TITLE: daisy

I'm 16 and have not yet lost my virginity. At a party I was a bit drunk and was making out with this boy I really liked in the back yard. We got on the trampoline and just lay there kissing each other. It was so good. We were rolling around and he slid his hand up my top and started massaging my boobs. I was getting really aroused. Then he put one hand a tiny bit down my skirt, suggesting something. I kind of indicated we should go somewhere more private. So we got off the trampoline (I actually tripped off and hurt my neck... anyway). We went into the house that the party was at and went up stairs. It was amazing, there was a whole wall of glass overlooking the river and city lights! The room was like a lounge room and we kissed for a while on the couch while he felt my boobs. Then he knelt down between my legs sliding my skirt off, and then my undies, commenting that he liked them. I felt a bit silly cos they were kind of bright and funny. I had a boob tube on and he pulled it down so he could feel my boobs. He was a bit eager and rough, shoving his fingers into my vagina. He was licking and came up for a while to suck my boobs whilst stimulating me with his hand. I felt a bit stupid because I couldn't stop smiling, the view was amazing, it all just felt so surreal. He went back down and played around for a while. I was runing my fingers through his hair and my breathing was increasing. He wasn't very good and I wanted to give him some pointers but was too scared. So I faked an orgasm. We made out for a while, and I realised he'd taken his pants off already, eager for me to reciprocate. I was excited, but told him this was the first time I'd given head and that I might not be very good. He was pretty big, and it was so exciting to be this close to his dick. I used lots of the techniques that I'd read in magazines and tried to deep throat. I went pretty well, but ran out of saliva and got a really sore mouth, so I finished him off with my hand whilst kissing him, and him rubbing my boobs. After that we just sat for a while and stared at the amazing view. I will never forget it and overall the experience was so amazing. (Sorry this isn't a 'losing my virginity' exerience, but I really want to write down what happened, without the risk of anyone in my house finding it. Thanks) I'm getting aroused remembering all this, can't wait until next time.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Other
TITLE: Some guy

C'mon ladies tell me.. How you supposed to know if your supposed to "go for it" .. I mean you girls never go and say it.. The girl might get out the rape whistle.. Wait.. I just answered my own question.. I didnt even think it through... Just find someone wyou really connect with and wait for when the time is right... wow.. I so didnt think that one through lol... Oh well. Peace out thanks for ya time... ~Mark

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Steff

I was molested from before my first memories. I don't know when I was first raped. I don't think that a teenage girl gets much out of sex. I think that it's better when a girl is in her 20s. I'm not sure if waiting until then for sex makes a difference from the perspective of virginity affecting sexual pleasure. When a teenage girl is with a teenage boy, it's all about him getting his rocks off and has nothing what-so-ever to do with her pleasure. Most women that I know were not able to have an orgasm as a teenager.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: MoMo

I lost my virginity at the age of 16 with my first boyfriend..we've only gone out for like 3 weeks beacuse we've been having an in and out relationship. Im not going to get into details because by now all of you should now(lol). The best age to lose your virginity is when you think the time is right. I though I made a best choice loosing it with my man but I thought wrong 'cause now im pregnant & he just broke up wit me yesterday.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Dee the Dee

Virgin--partially through circumstance to get to this stage, some intelligent decisions, and now through conscious choice. I would like to wait for marriage...I guess the easiest, most concise way to explain the choice is to say "We'll never get another chance at an extended foreplay experience like this again." As for, the "best age or circumstances to have sex," it really depends on the folks involved, I'd say.

SEXUALITY: Virgin
GENDER: Female
TITLE: anyamous

I am a 21 year old virgin.When I was 5 some of my parents friends had a 6 yr old boy I use to play with, that was much smarter yet stupider then me & use to get me to strip I never understood what he was doing then, but do now & was kind of uncomfortable with it yet liked it knowing in fear my sisters would catch us and tell on me. But had always been taught to do as I was told was kind of a shy litte girl & would do what he begged & pledded for me to do & plus just wanted to play so when the little boy proceeded to get me to do things that he probably learned from his much older brother in the bedroom next to him or his openly pronographic parents, such as; when I wanted to play kitten or puppys he always wanted to be the mommy so He could say his little weiner was his tit in which I nursed from. I would do it briefly then try to find a way out of it & try getting 7 begging him to suckle on my little future boobie. He would lock me in his closets and beg me to remove my clothes so he could feel on me and marvel my naked body.Finally my older sisters caught him in the act one day and told my parents which got me in trouble which scared me when I never understood my actions totally cause I knew where and sort of how babies were made but never understood what he was doing.But after that they wouldn't let us play alone togeather anymore. Then when his parents proceeded to watch porno flicks with him in the same room, and on a later occassion his father attempted to take advantage of my mother during a a charity dance while dancing togeather my parents were discusted & qwit hanging out with them. But now I'm feeling something about the way it was all handled & what the little boy did traumatized something in my head. I'm always worrie about what the men I have dated are really after. and with as badly & ready I am to have sex now in my much older and mature days,I can't find a guy I can truely find myself with that way because i'm scared if I do give in to some guy I feel is worthy,I'm gonna get in trouble, an accident might happen, I might get pregnant before I'm ready for children, or reguardless of how little I care about my religion it would be wrong to do so before marriage.But in knowing those thoughts are normal for many women, I don't know how they get past all the thoughts, how they don't think of things like that along with being comfortable enough in being able to find the words to request or make sure he where's a condom or he's being truthful about his sexualality and stds. But that's minor compared to what it seems my biggest problem is which is just that I mostly have trouble understanding men,& feel sex is all men want from me, & I just have trouble finding one guy that I can feel attracted to & totally free and comfortable around to build a relationship close enough with that I can sooth my cravings with and start my life & family with. Just feel that will never happen unless I can either meet someone that gives security to all of my insecuritys. Unless there might be someone else out there that might beable to give me the answers I'm needing to fix my insecuritys and that is why I have shared my storie at this site. I was looking for answers and this is where I ended up. But on a more appropriate level for this site. I definately feel that sex should be held off until your twenties. When you know where you want to go in life, clear minded and truely feel ready and capable of handling it. And I do not feel anyone can really feel and know they are ready until they reach a age of true adult maturity. They might feel they are but when in all actualality at the younger teen and preteen ages they are acting out on what they think is ready when they are truely acting more on curiosity,impule,& cravings all of what they would call raging hormones.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Kitty

I was 15 at the time when I lost my virginity. It went to my best guy friend Zach. We were going out at the time and I went over to his house to watch a movie with him, sort of like a date. Well, his parents said they had to go to some like business party and they trusted us to be alone together so they left us that way. It wasn't long after his parents left that Zach went up to his room for a bit. He was gone a long time and I wondered what he was doing. When I walked into his room he was sitting on the bed like he was waiting for me to join him in something. He asked me if I was ready for it, him being my best guy friend, I replied with a "Yes". I sat down next to him on the bed and we started making-out. He took my shirt off and un-hooked my bra revealing my breasts. We continued to make-out until we were both completely naked. We both had nothing to go on, no knowledge or anything, just what we read about or heard. I think it went pretty well for us, since we were both first-timers. We positioned ourselves 69 style and after that he "put it in me". It hurt at first but I got used to it. The whole thing lasted about an hour and a half. After, I took some of his sisters birth control pills we found in the medicine cabinet, since he did not have a condom on. We are still dating and are planning to get married soon.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: minimarilyn

I was 14, he was 16, he was my first "real" boyfriend. He was ending his summer visit with his grandmother the next day and going back to CA (I'm on the East Coast) and we were out in the old lady's car "parking." It had a bench seat and there was a thunderstorm, and I was on top. I don't even really remember if it hurt. I had bad feelings about it for years and years, and then 10 years later we met again and talked about it. I didn't know until then that he'd been a virgin too. We had sex again, and not only was it good, it was kind of theraputic or something. I wish I'd been older, but all in all it wasn't too bad.

SEXUALITY: Homosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: L

I was 16 years old when I lost my virginity to my girlfriend. She started kissing me and then slid her finger up inside of me and I told her not to stop. She started playing with me and I started moaning and moving around a lot. Next thing I know she is telling me I'm not a virgin anymore and that I'm bleeding. I lost my virginity during that time of the month.

SEXUALITY: Other
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Troubled

I was 13 and my girlfriend had a crush on a much older guy - 20 or so. She knew about a private party where this guy was going to be at and needed me to go along. I have always been somewhat "weird",highly intelligent and pretty good looking,but always compared myself with very successfull,well spoken leaders and front-page beauties. Of course I never measured up... Anyway,I was somewhat complimented by my friend's begging for me to go with her to this party. The "party" was 6-8 guys hanging out,drinking and talking cars before they were going out to a club. I was served a drink,and it went downhill from there. I was raped repetedly by at least four of them. After the second my mind went numb and my body was like an empty doll. They took turns with me in every way possible and kept on after I passed-out.I don't remember it all,but I was told later they used objects on me and kept me for hours making sure I was out by feeding me alcohol by spoon. Apparently some of the guys left for the club and were bragging about their creative use of my body. Well, some other guys that I barely knew came and "rescued" me.Took me away and showered me,made me throw up as they were afraid I'd die. Then they put me to bed...Later that night,two of those "rescuers" had their way with me. I barely remember how,where...I only remember one of them saying "Thank you". I spent my twenties having sex with whoever I found to be convenient.I learned to be a sex-kitten with ways to make guys willing to sleep on the floor if I told them.I have never been heart-broken,and I never will. I learned a lot about manipulation and I know for sure that there are still guys in my home town, thousands of miles away...that think of me as the perfect "girlfriend".That think of me while they fuck their wifes.I was not the slut as I knew very well how to pick my subjects,how to make them love me and how to give the best sex they will ever have.And I hate their guts! I've been married more than 10 years to a 1-in-a-billion kinda' guy,and I know I am damaged for good. I wish I could turn on the "kitten" now and then for my husband,but I freeze when touched. I never leave my house,unless it's for my bi-weekly psychiatrist appt. I have only mentioned once to my doc what happened to me,as I am not the "therapy kind".I go to receive my Rx's and so my Doc can "keep an eye on me".We both know that I am capable of manipulating him as well,but I don't anymore. I've been thinking of a way to get the chance to give him a blow,but I know that would be just another way for me to punish,and I actually like my Doc and he has helped me a lot psycopharmacology wise. And still I cannot have sex with my husband. I guess that's real loe. I'm probably not the one to give any opinion or advise about age or stage where to lose "it". Just avoid ending up in a situation like mine! I think I'd want someone very gentle and experienced,someone that would not hurt but make sure that nothing is bad or wrong about enjoying your own body,someone that understood how fragile a female's selfesteem and body-image is at a young age. All develop at different levels and times so a number might not matter.I would not wait until married, but rather explore with a close friend,maybe an older and gentle female even if you are all "straight". Sorry it's so long. This is not "my" language. I wish I could meet this gentle woman NOW,maybe that would help me with some of my "issues"? PB/FL and I read the post every day... Just be careful and do not end up in situations like mine. Peace and Love.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: joy

well I am 13 and I lost my virginity earlier this year to a 15 year old. I had just came from tract practice and they send "him" to walk with me for protection. Before I knew it we were talking about having sex couse I always liked him and he thought I was pretty hot. We wanderd away from the group and found this old shack and he pulled it out. Dang he was big; I mean really big. But big wasnt all that good for my super tight pussy. he sat down and I was to sit on top of him. as I lowered the pain grew. though he was trying to be gentle with me I couldnt take the pain. so he stoped but we tried it again the next day!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: jen

im 13 and last month I lost my virginity to my really hot boyfriend. hes 21 and just got out of prison, I think its cool. He came to my place when my parents were away and we were talking and he started pulling himself then stood up and held me down when he cummed in my hair I said stop but then he put his cock in my ass and I eventuallyj just gave in cos it was fun, but hurt and he made me bleed.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: La La La.......

I lost my virginity in what I think was a very nice way. About a week before it happened my best friend told me that he liked me. Well I had always felt a special kind of chemistry between him as well so we began going out. We were both 15. My whole house was getting remodeled and they were doing the painting that weekend so we had to leave the house for the weekend. My best friend's family and mine were very close so we stayed over their house. On the second night we stayed there I started getting really homesick and went to my best friend's room. Since my family had moved in everyone had to rearrange themselves for sleeping and he and his younger brother who was seven had to sleep in his older brother's room who was out for the weekend visiting friends. So I went into his room and he was in his bed watching TV while his little bro slept across the room. I climbed in with him and we started watching TV. I told him how homesick I was. He said he was sorry and started kissing me. We started making out and then he started to massage my breasts through my nightshirt. We were both getting kinda aroused by then. I noticed that he had a bulge in his pants and he asked if I would want to have sex. I decided why not it seemed like a good time. So he reached into a drawer and pulled out one of his brother's condums. He pulled down his pajama pants and boxers and he put the condum on. He was on top so he pulled off my shorts and underwear. I was already pretty wet so he slid himself into me. It hurt at first when he started thrusting but then I got use to the size of him. It started to feel really good. He started going a lil faster and the bed started to squeak a lil bit. We were trying to be as quiet as possible since there were a lot of people in the house and we didnt wanna bring attention to ourselves. But we were both getting worked up. He started massaging my breasts as he thrusted. We were both starting to sweat a lil and our breathing was getting kind of loud. He had to bury his head in my shoulder cuz his breathing was turning into groans. It turned me on so much to have his warm breath on me. I had to put my fist in my mouth cuz I was starting to moan. Then I felt myself about to climax and I did and I let out a pretty loud moan into my fist and I made a more noise then I planned but it just felt AMAZING. He came a couple seconds after. Afterwards we both caught our breath and then realized that we had woken up his little brother. He started asking all kinds of questions and asked what we were doing and why we were making noise like that. And my best friend said that we were having sex and that sex feels really good. Then his bro asked what sex was and he said it was something you did with a person you loved. I just thought that was sweet that he was saying in his own way that he loved me. The next day we found out that no one else but his bro had heard us. We were so relieved.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: andrea

i lost my virginity this year 12 years old I was about to turn 13 my BF was already 13. We were on the couch watchingmovie when he turn to make out with me it was our first kiss as BF and GF we had just gotten together I was sitting on his lag I could feel his hard cock so ib asked him if he wanted to do it and and of couse he said yes so he took his clothes and I saw he had a pretty big dick for a 13 year old and we just did it. it felt good im glad my dad had some extra rubbers in his closet. after it was over we just made out for the rest of the night. best night of my life 2/17/2005

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Kaite

I lost my virginity when I was 14 years. I know that 14 my seem really young but to me it was the right time. It all happened in Feburuary, the month of my birthday. My best friend Tyler, his house was damaged pretty badly during a storm that week. So my mom decided that they would stay in our house until the damages we all fixede.they were coming to live with us, I had to stay in younger older brother's room, and shared it with my younger brother. That night I heard a knock on the doorand saw Tyler come in. He said that his brother was talking in his sleep, and asked if he could sleep in here with me. I said yes, and he came in bed with me. We started to talk and watch some TV when, looked at him, and realized my feelings for him, then I moved our a kissed him. I felt so stupid doing that, but then he came back with a warm soft kiss on lips. After that we started to make-out for about 10. We were trying to keep quiet, so we didn't wake anyone up. Then he stopped and asked if I wanted to go farther and have sex. I said yes and, then we started to kiss for little bit more after that. After we were done kissing I pulled away and I took my night shirt off and revealed my boobs to Tyler. He was so amazed,and that just made me smile. Then he leaned down lightly kissed both of my boobs. Shortly after Tyler asked I had any condoms, so I walked over to my older brothers desk and found a one. Walked back over, see his smiling face, and got back in bed. Slowly he pulled of his pants and I for the first time saw I penis. I looked back at Tyler and we huggedm then he went and put the condom on. I rolled on back and spread legs, basically giving him the invitation that I was ready. So he came over and got on top of me. I could really now see how much bigger he was than me. I'm 5'4 and tyler is about 5'8. Then finally I heard him ask me," Are you ready" , I replied yes. Then I felt his warm strong body come closer and closer to me. Feeling his weight on mine. I looked donw and took his penis and placed right at my vagina. Slowly his penis was moving indside my body. When I felt it go in about 1 inch I gasped. He stoped and asked if he should stop, I said no, so he continued. Finally it was the whole in. At first it hurt, but then pain was going away quickly, and I started to enjoy it. Tyler started to thrust smoothly against my small body , and going in and out over and over again. I tried to keep quiet, but is was so hard. Tyler was starting breath extremely heaving and moaning. I pushed his head into my chest. I felt my heart beating incredibly fast, I could feel myself starting to climax, realizing how hard I was trying to just keep quiet. I keep on moaning and breathing heavily. I moving faster and faster, then I heard the squeaking. All of a sudden I let go I shot and soft quiet, then I heeard Tyler say, I'm ready cum. He was really worried that he was going to get me pregnant, so he pulled out and shot and on my stomach. After he came, Tyler collapsed on top of me say how great I was, and me say that too. While we were resting and catching our breath, I caught Tyler looking at me and he told me how much he loved me. Then we had another session, which amazingly laster for 1 hour. Tyler and I have been together ever since that day, February 18th, 2005 and still to this day I would nevery take that night back for anything.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Lauren

I found this website and I really need some advice from more mature females about this. I have a serious boyfriend and his dick is like average size, and he is ready for sex and I want to too except for one reason, I dont think it will fit?is it going to or am I going to make a huge fool of myself?PLEASE respond I really need the advice.

SEXUALITY: Virgin
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Autumn

I am 15 and a virgin and im waithign until im married or until I at least graduate. My boyfriend and I have had other sexual encouters but we both want to wait till we are more responsible and can face any consequences like a baby or what not. I also have a bet with my friends that I wont have sex drink smoke or do any other drugs and if I dont ill get 300 dollers I kno I can make it.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: stasch

I was 16 when I lost my virginity. It was a good experience and the circumsatnces were good. Neither of us were drunk or anything so we knew what we were doing. And we were both virgins so it was new to both of us. I wish I had waited 2-3 three years. Not because of the guy or the circumstnaced just because I admire people who wait a bit longer.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: AngeLa

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend Keith at age 14 (i was turning 15) and he was 15. We were going out for about a month and 6 days, and it was the BC holiday. His parents and my parents were at work, well at a 'adult' party, and I went with my boyfriend to see the fireworks. We cuddled while thousands of couples made out, so we did too. After the fireworks, my friends parents took me and keith back to keith's place. He opened the car door for me and we headed up his driveway, and he opened the door. After we slid our shoes off, I thusted him towards the door. I still don't know what hit me, but I felt sexy and I just wanted him. Then I dragged him towards his bedroom and he asked me if I really wanted to do it. I agreed and I pushed him towards the bed. We made out for about 10 minutes and he took off his shirt and I started licking his abs and he started to kiss my neck. After wards, he slid off my tank top and undid my bra. He started gnawing on my nipples and slowing grabbed them, and I started to moan and scream in pleasure. He asked me if I had a condom or anything, and I went to my purse and grabbed a flavoured one. We took each others pants off slowly, and he revealed his penis and it started to point to the "northpole". He slid it on, and asked me again if I really wanted it. I didn't say anything and just jumped onto him. I went down slowly and I started moaning breathlessly. It hurt a bit at first, but after the third push, it felt like heaven. After that I got off his penis, and went down "there" and started to suck. Since it was a flavoured condom, I started to lick it and touching it. I grabbed it and started gnawing on it. He started to moan as well, and screamed my name over and over again. Cum started to flow around the condom and I started waiting him more. After our 2 hour "_____", I jumped into the shower, and started to wash myself. He came in and we started doing it again. He groped my boob and it felt sooo-good. After that, hee took me home, and kissed me goodnight. It was the BEST night of my life. Ever since that day, we have only _____ three times, and we just did it this afternoon. He will always be remembered.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Kendall

i lost mine when I was 13 with a guy named erik I had only known him for a few weeks. Erik had brown hair brown eyes a nice body and looked good! lol I knew him from a good friend of mine. well one night me and some of my friends thought it would be fun to sneak out of my house and go smoke (weed) well we met up with some people and ofcorse erik was there. and people were telling me that erik liked me and he wanted to hook up with me. well I had made a promise to myself to wait untill I got married but ofcorse I was high... and wasnt thinking right. so I went ahead and did it and im not going to go into detail because I dont remember that much detail lol well the next day he didnt even talk to me I felt used.. right now im 16 and honestly if I could go back and redo what I did ..i would have never smoked or anything.i think the right time to have sex is with the one you love.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Kendall

I lost mine when I was 13 with a guy named erik I had only known him for a few weeks. Erik had brown hair brown eyes a nice body and looked good! lol I knew him from a good friend of mine. well one night me and some of my friends thought it would be fun to sneak out of my house and go smoke (weed) well we met up with some people and ofcorse erik was there. and people were telling me that erik liked me and he wanted to hook up with me. well I had made a promise to myself to wait untill I got married but ofcorse I was high... and wasnt thinking right. so I went ahead and did it and im not going to go into detail because I dont remember that much detail lol well the next day he didnt even talk to me I felt used.. right now im 16 and honestly if I could go back and redo what I did ..i would have never smoked or anything.i think the right time to have sex is with the one you love.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: KayKay

I was 14 wen I lost my Virginity I remember the exact date because it was on my BestFriendz Birthday it was November 29 2003 right now im 16 LoL but yahh Anywayzzz me and her went to this guyz house because we didnt know what to do on her Birthday we were gonna go to da moviez n stuff but we decided to go see this guy instead this guy mah bestfriend had sex with already he said how b4 they were going out but I really think he just used her because she gave it up to him so Easy he even told me she was eazy it took him about 4 months to get mah Goodiez LoL but yah anywayzzz I was in his room n den I was flirting wid him but im not gonna act like I didnt want it because I did I wanted to know how sex felt soo yahh I took of mah pantz n he put on the condom N he tried stickin it in but it was really hard because I was (Tight) LoL I dun even know if he took my virginity or not because I was really tight but to both of us we say that he did n yahh I guess he did all I have to say is it really hurtz ALOT

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Jessica

I lost mine when I was 13..and I dont have any regrets really lol I did it with a guy named Zach and I liked him soo much we had been going out for about 5 months at the time and we were in love.. and we are still together today I think the right time to lose it is when YOU want to.. dont let anyone tell you what to do and dont let him pressure you into it if you trust him and love him then your ready.

SEXUALITY: Undecided
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Hannah

I lost my virginity when I was very young to my natural father, who my mum divorced when she found out what was going on. It's terrible and not very nice to remember now, but I didn't know better back then, and I would come home from school thinking this was OK. I remember being fascinated by his cum and his bone that wasn't actually a bone. He raped me, (I call it rape), for about 4 years. The beginning is all a blur really, but he used to praise me if I got him in me (either way) and spank me when I was useless. My mum walked in on us once, and that was the end of it. I'm now 29 and have never had a "proper" boyfriend.

SEXUALITY:
GENDER:
TITLE: Anonymous

I lost my virginity at age 19. I believe it was Mother's Day weekend. I had a revenge mode of thinking against my Mom since she dispised my boyfriend at the time he lived in another city an hour away from my home so I would never get home on time after dates with him. I thought I was in love 4 ever in fact he proposed to me when I was 18 that Christmas holiday before our moment of bliss. I pursured the love making as he was hesitant wondering if he would hurt me by having sex with me. He was 6years older than me. The day after I lost my virginity to him he called me at work to see if I was OK. I had bled a little bit and still had spotting yet I seemed to be fine. We did it on his Mom's couch in his parents home, in the basement where we spent most of our time together. His parents were seperated so I have to believe that he was also in a revenge mode of chosing where we would do it. We got a place together as my Mom threw me out of the house I had lived in since birth her and my Dad were always arguing anyway with me around since they thought I should at least stop seeing that guy he was too old for me they kept saying and since I was becoming an adult, I figured what better time than then to get a place to call my own. The boyfriend and I broke up about 6months later, he left me to see his ex in another state, and I ended up paying his portion of the rent since we never got back together. The time we did have together was heavenly he will always be a part of my growing up years. After that 1st time though, I had a hard time of not wanting sex.it seemed like I always had to have it! There's no turning back, so if your going to do it, make sure it's with a guy who respects you and cares for you, not for his own satisfaction! And for God's sake don't have sex with a family member; that is just sick and inappropriate! I have read some stories on here, what are you kind of girls thinking?

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Cheryl

My husband showed me this site, and I wanted to respond to some of the survey questions. I lost my virginity on my 16th birthday. I had a boyfriend, and we planned the event. I insisted he use a condom. We went to my loft room at my house. I was nervous about being naked in front of him, but I wanted to do it. I very nervously felt his prick and sucked it for a few seconds. He kissed my breasts and fingered me. I remember being very wet, but shaking with being nervous. He put the condom on and got on top of me. I helped him put it inside me. He _____ me for about 2 minutes before he had to come. I did not come that first time, but learned how to get on top of him later times and make myself have an orgasm. We did not do it very much, and his is the only prick besides my husband's that's been inside me.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Kris

I lost my virginity at the age of 20. The guy had just gotten out of jail the day we had sex and our friends had been trying to hook us up for over a year at the time. I wanted to wait til I was married, but it didn't happen. When it feels right, just go for it. I have no regrets about my first time.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Linda

I lost my vitginity when I was 8 and some older boys (mature men of 13 or so - tee-hee) said they would let me hand with them if I let them play with my boobs (A-cup already!). It quickly got out of hand and all four boys had me. I was so excited that I was well-lubricated and there was no pain. I think girls should loose their virginity as soon as they want to, and the beginning of puberty is a great time to do it.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Miwako

I lost my virginity at 15 with my first boyfriend who was 17. We always fooled around and tried anal but since we only had protroliem jelly, things got a little messy so we stopped. (weird part) my grandma knew we fooled around so she let us do stuff over there and brought us lubricate and condoms and douches. I got on birth control (the patch) and we were planning on doing it that day but he changed his mind earlier that day. We were laying on the floor in the back of the house and I was naked because we agreed to just have oral sex. He looked down at my and said that he wanted me so he started kissing me and got on top of me. I started getting really scared and started saying OH MY GOD repeatedly. Since I finger my self and he has fingered me, it was a little open but not that much. When he put the head in, I couldn't help my self and started crying, not because of the pain but because I wasn't a virgin anymore. It was very emotional for me to lose my virginity. So we stopped and he tryed his best to comfort me but I couldn't stop crying. Afterwards he told me he loved me and we hugged and stuff. It was time for him to go so my grandma dropped him off. we did it again the next day at my house because my parents were gone. I was on top and it felt ALOT better. After he came,we were laying naked on the floor and we heard his mom come into the yard. We started freaking out and stuff and were scrambling around to get his stuff. That's when I noticed that sex had a smell. I heard people saying that but I didn't really know what they ment until he left. I walked into the living rom, where we were and smelt it. I realized that I and he must also smell like that so I started worring that his mom could smell it. He called me when he got him and I asked if she smelt it and he was like yeah she asked me about the smell but she thought it was just from his clothes being dirty. I think it's best to have sex if you know how to control your self and try not to be a slut or anything and give your goodies out to every Tom, Dick, and Harry. lol I think I was ready to have sex even though I am still a little young. I am still and we did it about a month ago.

SEXUALITY: Other
GENDER: Female
TITLE: kay

I was 18 when I first had a sexual experience. There was a guy that I would see at cultural/religious group every week and he started giving me rides back home. Since I lived half an hour away, I appreciated that a lot. We had been joking one time about how I wished I had a leather 'pimp collar' to keep my non-existant hoes in line, and the next time he produced a 'ho collar' for me. He apologised that he couldn't find a pimp one, but I laughed and put it on anyway. We were both wearing by coincedence the same Israel Defense Force t-shirts. At dinner, we were sitting across from each other at the table and everyone was looking at us, wondering what was going on. Well, that night, when he pulled his van into my parents' driveway, he started talking a little so that I wouldn't just yell 'thanks' and go into my house. Talking led to a 'massage' which led to him touching my breasts which led to him wanting to touch my genitals. However, I was having my period at the time, so I refused at first. He said he didn't mind, so I let him. We then moved into the back of the van and engaged in mutual masturbation. I let him smear his ejaculate on my chest (a fantasy we obviously both shared) and then put on my clothing and went inside. However, as we started seeing one another a little more frequently, he tried to penetrate me. He had no experience with girls except what he had seen in porn and went in with all guns blazing. I tightened up and both wouldn't and couldn't physically let him in. I got frustrated with this (and some other things about him) and up and left him. For three years, I decided that I'd rather slice off male organs than have anything to do with them and my own organs. However, at age 21, just as I was about ready to graduate from college, I decided to give into the lust I had been feeling all year for another student in my hostel that I had been close friends with for some months. He had some experience -- he was married and away from his wife studying abroad. My first penetration was by him and it was just as amazing as I had always hoped it would be. We both acknowledged that the relationship would only last until he had to go back to his wife. (He was in an arranged marriage to a family member and, while having affairs with other women is expected, divorce is not even a question.) I feel glad that I waited until I had a man for whom I felt extrememly strong affection and friendship to go all the way with sexually.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: sarah

To Lauren and all other young women; Yes, your boyfriends penis will fit in, and it really doesn't hurt to have sex except for the very beginning. I wish all you women out there good luck with your future sex experiences.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: sweet

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend when I was 17 and he was almost 16. We were going out about a year before the event took place so when the time came round it was deffinatly right. Every time just gets better and better. We have been together for three and a half years now and going strong. We live toghether and are engaged. We both lost our virginity to each other which was very special and im so glad I waited for him and not some half witt loser.

SEXUALITY: In-Between
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Tess

My hymen got ruptured when I was 12 while out playing a roughhouse game with a bunch of neighborhood kids. THAT HURT. I lost my virginity at age 16 to my boyfriend of 6 months. He was very careful with me and always made sure that I was properly stimulated. We were "parking" of course. The ideal age would be when you are old enough to deal with the consequences adequately if you should become impregnated. Realistically, I think most have their first experience somewhere between 16-18 and so I was adamant about birth control with my kids. ( it didn't help in all cases, but mostly). It's too bad that physical and mental maturity don't match up any longer.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: jenice

I lost my virginity when I was 15 and a half. my boyfriend was 18 at the time and was a virgin aswell.. we both came from the same place but since he was already in college, he lived in another city but came home often. I was about to leave the coutry so we had to fly to the city he lived in.. I was with my mom when he came over. my dad stayed in our hometown. for a long while, we had been joking about condoms and those kind of stuff.. so just when he was about to leave, he showed me a condom just for laughs. he kidded around and said we'd use it.. and to his surprised I agreed. he thought I was joking as well.. but I wasn't. I don't know why I felt that way at the time. we sneaked out the back. nervously I agreed. I felt his hard thing enter me. it hurt alot.. I didn't expect it to though. it was kindi difficult since we had to do it standing. we couldn't take off our clother either with the fear of my mom coming outside. so all he did was open his zip and I pull my pants down since I was already in my pjs.. which were actually the boxer type.. those ones which have holes. finding difficulty I told him to stop for a while. I went into the bathroom and took off my undies since it didn't really matter. so we slipped his thing into both holes (the pjs and mine) it felt good. I could feel his sweat all over him.. he asked me if we could sit down.. since it might be easier. unexperienced, we couldn't do it sitting.. cought it arousement, we stood up right away and continued. the next day he came over again and I just couldn't help my self.. we were running 2 years when this happened.. that was around 7 months ago.. and just a couple of months ago he came home for spring break. luckily my parents were away.. as well as my brother. so I had the best 2 weeks of my life. he got to do it every so often.. except when he didn't bring a condom.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Gina

I was 15, I had never even kissed a boy (made out) I was staying at my cousins house for the weekend and her couisn was there, in fact he lived there with them, he was older and really cute. I don't know how ... but that Friday night one thing led to another and he and I were making out, and just went with theflow, pretending to be a pro. He asked me if I wanted to go to his room and I did, we made out and he took my hand on placed it on his penis and I started to jerk him off, he looked at me and told me to do it with my mouth, and gently put his hand on my head and there I was, giving this guy oral sex and I was loving it. he was telling me what to do and I obliged, he told me was going to cum but to keep on sucking and I id and then his big load filled me I thought I was going to choke, but I swallowed it up and sucked him dry. We did it a few more times throughout that weekend. The following day (saturday) we took a shower together, he fingered me between my legs and in my ass, the ass was very stimulated. He told me he wanted me, but I was scared of getting pregnant and told him I wouldn't go all the way. He understood and didn't force the issue. we left teh shower and went back to his room and wher had me lay on the bed and gave me a tongue bath, sticking his tongue in and out of me, I was in heaven. That was as far as it went that weekend. months would go by before we actually had sex.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: student

Several years ago (20) when I was 15 my parents went on vacation to England for the summer & I stay'd with a family friend we called Uncle, he was 40's then. About 1 week into my stay with him I went to a teen dance at the local dance hall. I met a real nice boy (17) there... The boy danced very well & took me under his wing. I was getting excited as any teenage girl would. after the dance he brought me home & kissed me good night ! I was in heaven ! He left & I was still excited so I went right to my room to masterbate which I had done many times since I was about 11yrs old. My uncle & his neighbor friend who was 60's were downstairs play'n cards. I sat on the corner of the bed with my jeans & panties down to my ankles lean'n back on the bed rubbing my clit. I was getting very wet when all of a sudden my Uncle & his buddy burst into the room. THEY HAD BEEN WATCHING ME FROM THE START ! . I was frozen-in-fear. My uncle placed his shoe over my already down jeans/panties & said "its time you learn'd how to sqirt the right way". His buddy was taking off his clothes & my uncle was undo'n his belt/pants. He told me to get undressed & get in to the shower. I knew what was coming next. So I got into the shower with both of them & they washed/suds'd me, they were gentle but never stopped rubbing their hard staffs on me. After we shower'd & towel'd they told me to lay on the bed.. They wanted to get me ready for my "first-time". My Uncle spread my legs & lifted my knees,rubbing my thighs... I was getting wet all over & my clit was swelling again. I was in shock..but it was a great feeling. The older buddy sat behind my face while holding my nipples... My uncle started to lick me & I went in to a moaning/muscle moving/tummy push.. I couldnt control myself. Then my Uncle put just the head of his penis into my already wet partly open pussy... He said..."I'll go slow so be a big girl..ok ?"... I said "ok". His hand around his penis brushing in a oval ...he enter'd me slowly... IT WAS GREAT ! I had never felt anything like that before/since. while at the same time his older bubby was very alert to my nibbles. I wanted more ! & they gave it to me. I was able to cum by him pump'n & rubbing with his thumb back/forth on my clit with 4 fingers on my tummy.... NO MAN SHOULD HAVE THAT POWER ..but he did & I loved it. All I asked of them is to not cum inside me. I was afraid of get'n preg.... Both did cum on my stomach which I also enjoyed watching. All that summer my uncle taugh me how to be skilled lover & his older buddy visited every friday night to help... I have heard friends/rel./co-workrs say how they sufferd on the first-time. I am thankful for not being one of them.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Cousin

Well, at least you aren't my cousin, who needed a hymenotomy at 17 because she was too thick and her boyfriend didn't want to force the tissue himself. --- She needed the doctor to rupture her hymen because she was born with an almost intact one, she barely could use a tampon. She actually had the procedure done when she broke her tampon string and couldn't get her own fingers in to retrieve the tampon herself. --- Her boyfriend had tried twice before to have sex but didn't want to force the issue cause the first time she whimpered and he thought he was hurting her and the second time the door bell rang.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Annie

I was 18 when I lost my virginity. I had had plenty of other experiences leading up to it, but was always afraid of getting pregnant, so avoided intercourse until then. It happened on Valentine's day at my then-boyfriend's mom's apartment. We were watching the movie "Spawn" and ended up in his bed, and eventually had sex. It hurt quite a bit, but I imagine it was because I was really nervous, and probably not lubed enough. When it was over, I went home, and felt like everyone could tell just by looking at me that I was no longer a virgin.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Sarah

Very simple process. My 2 best friends and I went camping before our last yearat High school. We hooked up with 3 guys who had finished first year Uni and over the course of a week the 3 of us were virgins no longer. All very easy - in a tent on a bed of blow-up matresses and quilts. As I'd been using tampons for years, there was no real trauma, tho the very first instant a penis actually pops inside, is very interesting with just a tiny bit of stretching pain. No, I didn't orgasm, but it felt nice.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: SweetKaty

Mine was taken away when I was 14 years old , it was my my friend's uncle. We both (me and lucy) was at her house and there was her uncle there. We played around , watching TV and stuff. Then her uncle asked her to go to the mall and buy him a coat since he forgot to buy one when he acme back from work ( the mall was 45 minutes from the house ) and I didn't have any bus ticket so she went alone while I was alone with her uncle. Then he tripped and all his coffee was all over me , so he told me to take a bath and use Lucy's clothes. I was " okay " , I realised there was no lock in the bathroom I though he wouldn't come in because he knows I was in there. So I was in the bath for about 5 minutes , I heard some foot walking sounds , I looked outside the bathtub and I saw him came in with all his clothes off. I yelled and said " Excuse me what are you doing , i'm using the bath! " then he said " We'll have fun together." I was terrorized and he threw something on my face , my eyes was burning and I felt into the bathtub and I realise , I fainted... when I woke up my legs was tied up and my hands too. I turn back I saw him rubbing my clit then he came deep in my anal ( IT HURTED ALOT ) and I started to cry and yell . Abit later , he turned me over and put the head of his penis on my pussy side , and he said " Now , lets explore this pussy " I was really scared and I tried to kick him with my tied up legs but I couldn't , then he penetrates "it" inside my pussy and its really really hurted and I started to bleed a little bit ( then I cried cuz I know I was no longer virgin ) and so , I fainted again. When I woke up I was un-tied and couldn't walk with my legs closed and I saw a pile of blood on the bed , I explored my pussy with a finger when I take my finger out I saw cum with blood mixing together so I know he came inside me ( I was really affraid to be pregnant ) I walked outside the living room I saw him laying on the sofa watching the TV and Lucy hasn't come back yet. I cried as much I can and I went to take a bath ( I felt very dirty ) , when lucy came back I didnt tell her anything I just keep silence. 2 days later I realised I was pregnant and my mom was surprised after she checked me up ( she was a doctor ) , she called the police and I told everything to the cops , but after a day of search they discovered that the man moved outtown. Now im 16 and I still remember this scene when im flashbacking my mind and I cry everytime I remember I was raped by an ugly man when I was 14...

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: lauren

I lost my virginity my senior year of highschool at a party with some highschool friends. I was sick of everyone talking about sex and when my best friend finally lost it and would talk about it, I couldn't take it anymore. It wasn't a big deal to me and I lost it to some guy that I used to like my freshmen year. I didn't regret it for a long while, but now that i'm in college and things are so different, I wish I would have just waited. I was too imature and uninformed about it all. Now I want a real relationship and all I wish is that I could still be a virgin. I never knew real feelings, and now that I am having real feelings toward who I am and the relationship I am looking for, I feel that I made a big mistake.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: mia

i lost it two days before my seventeen b-day we been together for 11 months and we did everything together we was my fist for everything besides kissing .one summer day I just text him that I was so horny that I really wasn't but I was trying to mess w/ his head ..so he came over and we did it . it hurt but then he came in and it was the best feling ever .i know it doesnt sound like it was so great but it was time.were still together and I still love him...sex is the best now...

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: J. Fay

I lost my virginity when I was 12 years old and ain't felt a bit bad about it. In fact if I had it to do over agian I would and ain't ashamedto say I' do it over agian. I lost it to 5 boys - 3 16 year olds and 2 18 year olds. I had just gave all 5 blowjobs and one was talking of going to find someone to have sexual intercoures with. Since I already had my shirt off and their loads over my tinybreast,I got up off my knees, kicked my shoes off, and dropped my jeans and panties off and told them if it was intercoures they wanted I would let them have sex with me and that I was a virgin. It felt good then and it feels good now even if I am 62.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: s

I was twenty when I lost my virginity to this guy who I sorta liked, was Indian (i find Indian guys sooooo hott, I'm white and so far have hooked up only with Indians, I hope to change this eventually), and 23 years old, for awhile, but started to realize that it was more a physical attraction than anything else. We'd had alot of conversations about our life views on things and a few things he had said about sex (such as we're young and free to experiment, etc) had made me wish I wasn't stuck with conservative parents and a "no sex before marriage" viewpoint. Anyway, I went to his birthday--totally fun, music blasting, people dancing and drinking, lava lights, everything. (Did I mention I dont' really drink or party much either?). And I'm thinking, I wonder what will happen if he and I dance. Was thinking maybe some kissing or something, but feeling totally rebellious and adventurous. I was actually sorta jealous of the girls he was dancing with and thought he was avoiding me. He actually was because he thought I liked him and didn't want me to get any wrong ideas about things. Anyway, we did end up dancing, but I wasn't very good at it, so I suggested he show me how to dance better and I would try and follow what he did. This lasted about 2 minutes and then he was like, "wanna come see my room?". I knew exactly what this would mean and it was pretty adventurous. He was pretty tipsy, I hadn't had anything to drink, anyway, his "showing me dance moves" lasted like five seconds and then we were on his bed. Except I had my period, and was very very hesitant about it all, so we didn't do much more than make out a bit. It wasn't really fun, but it was really adventurous, so we talked the next day and agreed to do "part 2" some other time. He was really surprised that I was able to treat it as just a random casual thing, he had been worried that I would think it meant more or something. (He had been more drunk than I realized at the time.) Honestly, he was one of those guys who does not really care as much about the girl's pleasure as their own and when we did fool around again, he insisted I was ready, but I wasn't, and it hurt alot when he did enter me, so I made him stop. Then, we talked it over and ended up having this huge fight because I sortof insulted his abilities without meaning to. He played alot of mind games and was pretty cruel, and so I just told him, @#$@ u, I am never going to talk to you again. And I didn't, for several months. We learned alot from it. Now I'm thinking that I'm still pretty inexperienced, but that if we had sex again, it would turn out much better. Basically, the main problem was that I needed someone really sensitive and kind for my first time, and he wasn't that way. He made me feel bad about beign inexperienced, as though I was weird as a person, even though HE was the one who had convinced me that no-strings-attached sex was possible. I worried alot for the next few days/weeks about whether I had problems with sex and whether it ever woudl be fun and not painful. I had a very close guy friend who I turned to because I didn't really have too many people I felt comfortable talking about the whole experience with. I also liked alot and thought was really cute, he's also Indian, but I never thought of him as someone who was a potential makeout buddy. But because of the conversations we had about my horrible experience, he ended up telling me he liked me and we are now makeout buddies and close friends, but not dating (which is frustrating, but I acept that). He is patient and kind and makes it awesome and it is never awkward with him. We've had a few disagreements, but we get along pretty well and it's fun. I meanm, it's not always fun, but the cool thing about sex (listen all u virgins who are worried about this sort of thing) is that the first time and even after isn't always that good, but it is definitely something that u can improve with. It doesn't hurt anymore and I really like it all. I've also fooled around with a few other guys, which brings up the question of "is it cheating when u fool around with people besides your makeout buddy." Still haven't figured this one out. Sex without commitment can be really good and is possible, but not always. And this issue keeps coming up. I get bored in stuff easily, being a Gemini, and I worry that it'll be hard to stick with one guy when I am married. But that's a long time away (I hope), so I'll have fun, as long as it stays fun. Me and any guy I hook up with are very careful about birth control and we have good communication, so I think that sex can be better if u wait a bit longer before u start. One more thing: sex is addicting--be careful!

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Maria

My boyfriend & I were both 13 and very curious. We were together for a while & figured we'd give it a try. Neither of us knew what we were doing but just imitated what we saw in the soft-porn films. 20+ years later we see each other & just give a wink that only we can understand. I regret losing my virginity at such a young age. But it was no mistake with the boy I lost it with. If I could choose a time to lose my virginity it would have happened after high school. You do your own thing and you don't give in to peer pressure. I was one of the last girls in my class to 'give it up'. Pathetic. It was probably 3 years before I had sex again. I wish I had a better head on my shoulders in high school. Wiser decisions would have been made! I've now been married 12yrs. My husband knows when I lost my virginity. He was 18. Words to those thinking sex is good at an early age...wait. You'll not only know more about what you're doing but you'll later feel good about the decision you've made. And definitely choose someone you can trust. Good luck!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Jan-it

I lost my virginity when I just turned 14. During high school I was not very popular and got talked about alot. Mostly because I belonged to a Baptist church that beleived in female members wearing dress, blouses, and such and the other kids thought of me as an oddball. Anyway,someone started a story about me still being a virgin and to tight to give it up, so I decide I would do something about and in a way that the other kids in school would find out and maybe that make me more popular. I had sex with the entire varsity football team. When I mean I had sex with the football team I had sex with them. That was me totally nude and me having sexual intercourse with them, prefroming oral on, and them prefoming anal sex on me. The next day at school I still was not popular and I lost my virginity for nothing.

SEXUALITY: Heterosexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Tracy

I was 14 and I went with my best friend Audrey (she was 14 too), her boyfriend Tom (16), and another guy from our school Scott (16) that really liked me but I wasn't interested in him. We drove across town to buy some weed from a guy that Tom knew. The guy was probably 25 or so and I remember laughing to Audrey about the piles of porn mags all over his apartment. We ended up getting really high and I passed out. Tom and Audrey wanted to leave for a party so Scott and the weed-dealer guy said they'd drive me home. When I woke up I was naked in bed with Scott thrusting inside of me while the weed guy sucked on my nipples. I was totally disoriented like it was some wild dream and next thing I know Scott is coming in me. I started throwing a fit and tried to get away but they held me down. Then the weed guy grabbed some polaroids off the night stand that they had taken of me nude. He said he'd destroy them if I let him do me too otherwise he was showing them to everyone. I was still in a drugged fog and I just told him to hurry up and get it over with. They got me on my hands and knees and he did me from behing while Scott made me give him oral. Scott was about average size, maybe 6 inches, but the weed guy had to have been at least 8 and very thick. At first it felt like he was going to split me open but after awhile it got better and I ended up having a huge orgasm just as he shot his wad in me. I felt like such a dirty slut. The polaroids were cut up and thankfuly no one ever found out. I dropped Audrey as a friend and I think she suspected something bad had happened. I'm 35 now, married, and live a typical suburban life. But a few years ago I started meeting men on adult dating sites and I usually find two or three guys that will have rough sex with me in a hotel somewhere. My husband doesn't know about this side of my life and part of me wants to stop but another part craves it so much.

SEXUALITY: Other
GENDER: Female
TITLE: bad day

I lost my virginity when I was 7 years old. A neighborhood boy who I was friends with was urinating, and I saw him, and (of course) was curious, so I watched. tehn he said that he wanted to "freak" me, and that if I didn't, I wouldn't be able to play in the neighborhood treehouse anymore, so I let him, although I didn't know what he truly meant. He had sex with me above my protests, and that was that. I did not enjoy it, and have never enjoyed sex yet, even though I'm now 34.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: v

when I was 12 and I was masterbating in my room and my brother came in and saw me with my finger up me pussy. then he droped his pants and said let me show you the right way and put his penis inside of me and I screamed really loud becase I was having a orgasim.we kept doing it for 2 hours and it was great. not only did I have my fist orgasim and lost my virginity but I would do it all over.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: have fun!!!!

i lost my virginity when I was 7 to my brother. one day I came home to find my brother(10) playing with his penis. I asked if I could watch and he said it was ok. then he asked if I could rub his penis and get him I said sure. then he asked if he could toucch my lower area and I said ok because he was letting me touch his penis and I was having fun so I took off my pants and my undies. he touch my cilt and started rubbing it and it felt really good then he put his face down and stsrted to like my vigina then he put his toung in me and I started to moan and he kenw I like it so he kept doing it. then a rush came oner me and it started to shake all lot so my brother stoped and the rush going through my body stoped and I suddenly felt like I had to have it again.my brother told me I had a orgasim and I told him I wanted it again so he storted to finger me and do all of the other things but it wasn't working and I started to beg him to get it to work but he told me the only other thing he could think of was to have sex so I told him to do it so he put his penis close to my viginga and put it in. at first it hurt because what he had was big but then he started to take it in and out and I had a HUGE!!!!!!!!!!! orgasim. me and my brother have been doing it since and I like it better than my husbands.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: wildthang

i was 14,to a older boy who was parents were friends with mine and my parents almost forced me to date him,he wanted sex from day one,finally he told me that we were going to on our next date,well our next date came and I was so nervous,we made it all through the date and got within 3 miles of me being home and he pulled over on a backroad and said he wanted to do it before he took me home,i hated it,it was awful but I didn't want to let him or my parents down so we did it. I think girls should wait until marriage,it has cost me so many heartaches in my good marriage,so much trouble could have been avoided.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: gud

i lose my virginity with my bf when I was in 1st year of engg,we were staying in hotel,after lot of foreplay he asked for sex,first I refused then I agreed, he had already brought condoms with him,i opened my leg wide and he inserted his penis,i was moaning in pain and then start enjoying, now we are not together,i'm dating someone else but can never forget that day with him

SEXUALITY:
GENDER:
TITLE: jen

i lost my virginity to my step-dad. I was 10 when I came home to find my step-dad home from work.i asked him what he knew about sex and he told me to go upstairs and wait for him on his bed so I did. when he came in he started to talk off his clothes and told me to do it and lay on the bed so I did. when I layed down he told me that he was going to give me oral sex and walked over spread my legs and told me it will probly hurt.he stuch his penis in me and it hurt but then he started talking it in out and it felt good.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Danielle

I lost mine when I was 7 to my dad and stepdad. My mom and stepdad were visiting the house I lived in with my dad. My mom was out running groceries and my dad and my stepdad (from now on I will just call him step) were looking at porn photos of pussys when I walked in the room. They made no attempt to hide them. I asked them what the picture was of because I didnt know and they said would you like us to show you. and I said yes cuz I had no clue wat they meant. Dad told me to go up to his room and sit on his bed while he and step got it. I went up and layed down. When they came in they were both naked. Then they asked me if I was ready to see it. I was startled by the sight of them but I had seen them both in the shower before so this was not a new sight to me. I said I was ready to see it. dad told me to close my eyes. I did and step and dad jumped on the bed. step stripped me while dad started french kissing me ferociously. I tried to resist but I was powerless. as soon as step had finished stripping me he thrust in his dick (he wasn't wearing a condom) and started going in and out while my dad cummed all over me (he cummed in my mouth, on my face, in my hair, on my boobs, yes I had boobs, I was a B then, now I am a DDDD, it was discusting hanving all this cum all over me). step cummed inside of me a ton as well. his dick was at least a foot long and very very very thick so the pain was so bad I thought I would die. Then they switched. my dad's dick a little smaller, but it still hurt. while he was cumming in my tiny pussy my step was cumming in my tiny butthole. I have never been in so much pain to this day. it turns out that my dad got me pregnant with quadruplets (they had to do a dna test to find the father). I am still scared for life because later after I gave birth my dad and step raped me again even worse than the first time and this time my step got me pregnant with twins. Now I am 15 and a mother to 11 children, most of them have different fathers they never see cuz they are in jail. I have never had sex with my consent.

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Belinnda

i lost it at age 8 to my older sister (16). she told me one day she was a lesbian. I asked what that was and all she said was that lesbians have more fun. at this I told her I wanted to be a lesbian. she said to be one you had to go through the iniciation process, so I asked her to do the iniciation process as fast as she could. she told me it would take a long time, but that it was very very fun. so I said ok. then she locked the door, stripped me and stuck her tounge in my pussy while she stuck a whole fist up my butt. this was very painful. then she switched her tounge and fist which was 50x more painful than before. after this she french kissed me fiercly and then announced to me I was lesbian.

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER:
TITLE: Feline

I was dating a guy in high school, I was 16 years old. We had petted heavily for quite some time. We had teased each other about "doing it" for several days, and the evening we did, we parked in a secluded place and we _____. It hurt like hell, but I still loved it and don't regret it for one minute. I'm lucky that I didn't get pregnant because we kept doing it almost every time we were together, and neither of us were protected. I don't know what the "right" age is to lose virginity, it depends on the person and how well they can handle the head thing that goes on. Me? I loved doing it. It connected me to my guy! Of course we broke up, but this is a small town and I see him from time to time. That was almost 40 years ago. I wonder if he still thinks of it when he sees me. LOL!

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Charline

Hey all I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We loved eachother so I spent the night at his house, and one thing led to another. We still love eachother and he recently bought me and engagement ring even though im only 17! we will be married on my 19th birthday. Thanks for listening! (we were both 16 at the time. and were dating for 3 years)

SEXUALITY: Straight
GENDER:
TITLE: Charline

Hey all I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We loved eachother so I spent the night at his house, and one thing led to another. We still love eachother and he recently bought me and engagement ring even though im only 17! we will be married on my 19th birthday. Thanks for listening! (we were both 16 at the time. and were dating for 3 years)...it was the nicest night of my life he was sweet! he didnt want to hurt me and I love him so much, he is my whole. He tells me he doesnt want to hurt me emotionally...srry for that lol!

SEXUALITY: Bisexual
GENDER: Female
TITLE: Nicole

I lost my virginity when I was 20. I got drunk and had a three-some with my best friend and his girlfriend. He looked at me and said he loved me before he came. His girlfriend went nuts. Two weeks later, he broke up with her and got with me. --I think there is no best age for having sex. I think the time should be magical and with someone that the person loves.

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